Optimistic UI

The idea of "Optimistic UI" is based on the belief that most of the time the things your users do will be successful. So if they check off a todo, we can instantly mark it as complete in the client while the request is made to make the change because most of the time it will be successful. This makes the UI feel much faster.
Learn more about the concept of Optimistic UI from the end of my talk here:
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useOptimistic

Transitions (like those you get from useTransition) prevent the UI from changing when the component is suspended. But sometimes you want to show a different UI while the component is suspended (and even change that UI multiple times while it's in the suspended state).
This is where useOptimistic comes into play. It may even be better to call it useTransitionState instead! In any case, the idea is that useOptimistic is like a useState hook which will actually change the UI even while it's suspended. It's often used to implement Optimistic UI which is why it's called useOptimistic.
Form Actions are automatically wrapped in startTransition for us so if you have a form action for which you would like to implement optimistic UI (which requires updating state), then you need to use useOptimistic to get around the suspended nature of the transition. Here's an example of how it's used with a Form Action:
function Todo({ todo }: { todo: TodoItem }) {
	const [isComplete, setIsComplete] = useOptimistic(todo.isComplete)

	return (
		<form
			action={async () => {
				setIsComplete(!isComplete)
				await updateTodo(todo.id, !isComplete)
			}}
		>
			<label>
				<input
					type="checkbox"
					checked={isComplete}
					className="todos-checkbox"
				/>
				{todo.text}
			</label>
		</form>
	)
}
The isComplete is based on the todo.isComplete, but during the transition, we can change it to !isComplete. Once the transition is finished (whether it was successful or errored out), it will fall back to the value of todo.isComplete.
And the interesting thing about this is we can update optimistic state as many times as we would like during the course of a transition, which means if you have a multi-step action, you could update a message to let the user know what step in the process you're running in all with the nice declarative model of suspense and transitions.

useFormStatus

Another part of giving users feedback of their form submission is showing them the status. useFormStatus can be used by any components that are underneath a form element.
Think of the form element as a context provider and the useFormStatus hook as a context consumer.
So you can make a submit button that has access to the current status of its parent form and display a pending state while the form action is in progress:
function SubmitButton() {
	const formStatus = useFormStatus()
	return (
		<button type="submit">
			{formStatus.pending ? 'Creating...' : 'Create'}
		</button>
	)
}
The formStatus has a number of other useful properties that can be used to help implement optimistic UI as well (like the data that's being submitted).